PA State officials building stricter sexual assault laws

July 2, 2012 in Ramblings

This article is from a PA newspaper, The Times Herald. I read this article with great hope.

http://www.timesherald.com/article/20120624/NEWS01/120629731/state-officials-works-towards-stricter-sexual-assault-laws

If these bills pass, it would afford me (and my brother) the opportunity to prosecute the pedophile that repeatedly abused us. In my case, the abuse was so severe that it is classified as second degree felonies.
Still trying to get my head around this possibility. I am so hopeful that these bills will pass. We never received justice and this pedophile went on to hurt many other children. He was never charged in ANY of the molestations.

It would mean the world to me to see a juror stand and say “guilty”. He would be placed on a sexual predator list so future communities could have at least *some* measure of protection. I will keep all of you posted on the progress of the bill.

EDIT: I SPOKE TO BILL WHITE, A JOURNALIST AND FRIEND FROM THE ALLENTOWN, PA PAPER “THE MORNING CALL”. AS IT HAPPENS, THE COMMITTEE THREW OUT THE “TWO YEAR WINDOW”. THIS WINDOW WAS DESIGNED SO ALL SURVIVORS COULD STEP FORWARD AND NAME THEIR ABUSERS…REGARDLESS OF HOW MUCH TIME HAS PASSED. SO…PAINFULLY, THERE IS STILL NO JUSTICE FOR ME OR MY LITTLE BROTHER. BE ASSURED THAT THE PAIN FROM THIS WILL BE A POSITIVE FUEL FOR THE FIRE THAT BURNS WITHIN ME. I WILL CONTINUE TO FIGHT FOR OTHER KIDS AND MAKE SURE THEY RECEIVE *JUSTICE*.

Here is the full article by TONY FIORIGLIO:

HARRISBURG — In the wake of the Sandusky trial that rocked Pennsylvania and the rest of the country, state legislators have begun working to further protect children from abuse and to ensure full punishment for the abusers.
According to a statement released by the office of Rep. Todd Stephens (R-151st Dist.), the representative has backed a series of bills that would help bring sexual predators to justice. H.B. 832 would eliminate any statute of limitations in cases of sex crimes being committed against minors, which would allow alleged abusers to be tried no matter how much time has passed. H.B. 878 would extend the statute of limitations for victims who wish to pursue civil actions against their abusers. Pennsylvania currently allows civil action to be taken until the victim turns 30. The proposed bill would move the cut-off to 50. H.B. 2488 combines the two previous bills. “We cannot allow sexual predators to avoid criminal punishment and civil liability by riding out the clock and hiding behind the statute of limitations,” Stephens said in the statement. “These bills are critical in ensuring child victims of sex crimes receive the justice they deserve and that the offenders are held accountable for their actions.” All three bills have passed through the House Judiciary Committee and now move to the House of Representatives.

In addition to the previous bills, Stephens also came out in support of H.B. 1264, which would allow expert testimony to be given at child abuse cases that would help explain why the victims may wait years before coming forward with charges. “It is not uncommon for young victims to bury the crime as a means of psychological self-defense,” said Stephens in a statement. “Expert testimony as to why there would be a delay between the crime and the reporting of it will prove immeasurably helpful to jurors as they seek the truth in these difficult cases.” This bill awaits Gov. Tom Corbett’s signature to become law.

June 5, 2012 in Ramblings

This is incredibly painful and difficult for me to write about.

Out of nowhere, I received a text from my younger brother today. In this text he told me that he had also been sexually abused by the same man that sexually abused me. I was stunned beyond belief. I read it 4 times before I could process it.

This is the first time he’s ever talked about it in 30 years. As soon as I was able to comprehend the text I started to cry…my head was spinning and it was hard to breathe. I called him immediately.

When? How? Where? etc, went the string of questions. Grief, anger, loss, rage, helplessness…my feelings were spinning out of control.

Why did I not do a better job of protecting him? I honestly thought for all these years that he was “safe”…that he escaped the abuse. Guilt, helplessness, more rage…

Then more things started making sense…I have another brother that had suffered a lot of similar problems that I suffered as a teenager…depression, anxiety, thoughts of suicide. Then it hit me…OH, NO…not HIM too…Could it have happened to ALL THREE OF US?

It’s been a tornado of emotions all day…it’s 9pm at night and I am still spinning…it feels like a different world. For 30 years I thought my brothers were SAFE and I felt like I did a good job of protecting them…and somehow it feels as if I’ve failed. The reality is that I was 13 years old and there is nothing I could have done back then to prevent it.


There I am in the middle…I’m the tiger holding their hands…not feeling like much of a tiger at the moment. I know I could not have done anything to protect them…I was just a kid myself…but I’m the oldest brother and it’s my job to watch out for my little brothers. Ironically, with my youngest brother Todd, he’s the one who’s been watching out for me in recent years…he’s helped me countless times and in countless ways…Todd, I am sorry this happened to you. You didn’t deserve it little brother.

You have my word that I will take this pain and transform it into something good for both of us. I am on a truly blessed journey and I feel like I have heaven and earth behind us…